Having a Healthy Relationship

Here are some tips to having a healthy relationship.

1. Successful relationships take work. They don’t happen in a vacuum. They occur when the couples in them take the risk of sharing what it is that’s going on in their hearts and heads.

2. You can only change yourself, not your partner. If you love someone and think that after a while he or she will alter behaviors you find uncomfortable, think again. If you want changes, put them on the table. so your partner knows what you need.

3. All arguments stem from our own fear or pain. When upset occurs, check out what’s going on inside of you rather than get angry with your partner. Truth is that we usually aren’t upset for the reasons we think we are.

4. Understand that men and women are very different. We’re not from Mars or Venus; we’re not even in the same solar system.

Understanding and celebrating our differences will make living together more peaceful, interesting, and fun.

5. Honor each other in some way every day. Every morning you have the opportunity to make your relationship sweeter and deeper by recommitting to your mate. Feeling respected and cherished by the one you love makes life much nicer.

6. Anger is a waste of time. Anger is also a relationship killer, because it makes you self-absorbed and won’t allow you to see the good. If you are annoyed with your mate, give yourself some time to calm down and then gently discuss what’s going on for you.

7. Get regular tune-ups. Go to a couples workshop, talk with a counselor, or read a relationship book together at least once a year. Even if you don’t think you need it, you will pick up a couple of ideas, and the process alone will strengthen your connection.

8. Find a way to become and stay best friends. For some this sounds unromantic, but for those who live it, most say it’s the best part of their time together.

9. Be responsible for your own happiness. No other person can make you happy. It’s something you have to do on your own. If you feel it’s your partner’s fault, think again, and look within to find out what piece may be missing for you.

10. Give what you want to get. Our needs change with time. If you’d like to feel understood, try being more understanding. If you want to feel more love, try giving more. It’s a simple program that really works.

There are no guarantees, but couples who practice these techniques have longer and stronger relationships than those who are not proactive in their love.


Birthday Post

Hii guys, so today is my birthday 🎂 so I’ll be doing an expose on myself hope you love it.

Abit about myself

My name is  Isabella Omonobi, I’m from Edo state,I’m the third  child in 5 kids👪. I stay at Abuja and I’m a student of the University of Benin🎓. 

What I do for fun?

 I Love to sing although I’m shy, I  love taking pictures( selfies😅), I read sometimes, I love listening to music, I love exploring the internet.

Are You Single???

Lool….yea im very Single.

What do you do to benefit the the public?

Umm.. We’ll I’m a blogger trying to improve and I plan to have a vlog too and other social media platforms to inform people about things.

Where do you see yourself in 2years?

By God’s grace I’ll be very influential positively to girls starting from uniben and everywhere I have access to.

Thanks alot for Your time Isabella.

Questions are allowed and would be answered simply send via IG @zvbells__ or leave a comment here . Have a lovely day💖.


Could you tell us your name?

Nafisah Ibrahim .

Please tell us abit about yourself?

My name is Nafisah, I’m 18, I’m from a Muslim family of 10, I study at Nile university where I’m studying international relations and political science, 200lvl.  

So tell us the aim of your business

The aim of my business is to make youths, young girls especially realize that they don’t have to be dependent on anyone, little things like your pocket money, you should be able to provide for yourself. Another aim of this business is to grow my country.

What motivated you into starting up your business?

My passion, I’ve always had a thing for fashion, I’ve always wanted to have my clothing line, a fashion empire… Then my daddy, my dad is a business oriented man, he likes when we do something, no matter how little it is, he is very supportive.

What are some challenges you face in the business?

Challenges…. I wouldn’t say there are no challenges in my business, every business has its own, but I’ll overcome them with time.

Where do you see your business in some years time?

I see my business booming In Shaa Allah, I see my business known all over the nation…. but in the next let’s.. say ten years…. I’m aiming worldwide, in Shaa Allah.

What’s your advice for young women generally?

My advice for young girls is to try, do not be lazy, do something, no matter how little it is, do not wait for anyone, there are a lot of businesses out there, so yes, you can do it and you will. Help yourself, you don’t need anyone, be an independent woman.

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Funny Facts About Women

1. Women love to shop. It is the one area of the world where they feel like they’re actually in control.

2. Women especially love a bargain. The question of ‘need’ is irrelevant, so don’t bother pointing it out. Anything on sale is fair game.

3. Women never have anything to wear. Don’t question the racks of clothes in the closet; you ‘just don’t understand’.

4. Women need to cry. And they won’t do it alone unless they know you can hear them.

5. Women will always ask questions that have no right answer, in an effort to trap you into feeling guilty.

6. Women love to talk. Silence intimidates them and they feel a need to fill it, even if they have nothing to say.

7. Women need to feel like there are people worse off than they are. That’s why soap operas and Oprah Winfrey-type shows are so successful.

8. Women don’t need sex as often as men do. This is because sex is more physical for men and more emotional for women. Just knowing that the man wants to have sex with them fulfills the emotional need.

9. Women hate bugs. Even the strong-willed ones need a man around when there’s a spider or a wasp involved.

10. Women can’t keep secrets. They eat away at them from the inside. And they don’t view it as being untrustworthy, providing they only tell two or three people.

11. Women always go to public restrooms in groups. It gives them a chance to gossip.

12. Women can’t refuse to answer a ringing phone, no matter what she’s doing. It might be the lottery calling.

13. Women never understand why men love toys. Men understand that they wouldn’t need toys if women had an ‘on/off’ switch.

14. Women think all beer is the same.

15. Women keep three different shampoos and two different conditioners in the shower. After a woman showers, the bathroom will smell like a tropical rain forest.

16. Women don’t understand the appeal of sports. Men seek entertainment that allows them to escape reality. Women seek entertainment that reminds them of how horrible things could be.

17. If a man goes on a seven-day trip, he’ll pack five days worth of clothes and will wear some things twice; if a woman goes on a seven-day trip she’ll pack 21 outfits because she doesn’t know what she’ll feel like wearing each day.

18. Women brush their hair before bed.

19. Watch a woman eat an ice cream cone and you’ll have a pretty good idea about how she’ll be in bed.

20. Women are paid less than men, except for one field: Modeling.

21. Women are never wrong. Apologizing is the man’s responsibility, ‘It’s there in the Bible’. Hmmm, who was it that gave Adam the apple?

22. Women do not know anything about cars. ‘Oil-stick, oil doesn’t stick?’

23. Women have better restrooms. They get the nice chairs and red carpet. Men just get a large bowl to share.

24. The average number of items in a typical woman’s bathroom is 437. A man would not be able to identify most of these items.

25. Women love cats. Men say they love cats, but when women aren’t looking, men kick cats.

26. Women love to talk on the phone. A woman can visit her girlfriend for two weeks, and upon returning home, she will call the same friend and they will talk for three hours.

27. A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the garbage, answer the phone, read a book, or get the mail.

28. Women will drive miles out of their way to avoid the possibility of getting lost using a shortcut.

29. Women don’t try as hard as men during sex; after all, they don’t fall asleep afterwards.

30. Women do NOT want an honest answer to the question, ‘How do I look?’

31. PMS stands for: Permissible Man-Slaughter.

32. The first naked man women see is ‘Ken’.

33. Women are insecure about their weight, butt, and breast sizes.

34. Women will make three right-hand turns to avoid making one left-hand turn.

35. ‘Oh, nothing,’ has an entirely different meaning in woman-language than it does in man-


36. Lewis Carroll’s Caterpillar had nothing on women.

37. Women cannot use a map without turning the map to correspond to the direction that they are heading.

38. All women are overweight by definition; don’t agree with them about it. Women always have 5 pounds to lose, but don’t bring this up unless they really have 5 pounds to gain.

39. If it is not Valentines Day and you see a man in a flower shop, you can probably start up a

conversation by asking, ‘What did you do?’

40. Only women understand the reason for ‘guest towels’ and the ‘good china’.

41. Did I mention that even after a careful and through explaination to the men in their lives, only women will understand the reason for ‘guest towels’ and the ‘good china’?

42. Women want equal rights, but you rarely hear them clamoring to be let into the draft to cover the responsibilities that go with those rights. All women seek equality with men until it comes to sharing the closet, taking out the trash, and picking up the check.

43. If a man ticks off a woman she will often respond by getting a fuzzy toilet cover which warms their rear, but makes it impossible for the lid to stay up thus it constantly gets peed on by the guys. (which gets them in more trouble)

44. Women never check to see if the lid is up. They seem to prefer taking a flying butt leap towards the bowl and then chewing men out because they ‘left the seat up’ instead of taking two seconds and lowering it themselves.

45. Women can get out of speeding tickets by pouting. This will get men arrested.

46. Women don’t really care about a sense of humor in a guy despite claims to the contrary. You don’t see women trampling over Tom Cruise to get to Gilbert Gottfried, do you?

47. Women fake orgasm because men fake foreplay.

48. It’s okay for women to dance with each other and not be gay, You don’t see straight men dancing together.

49. Women will spend hours dressing up to go out, and then they’ll go out and spend more time checking out other women. Men can never catch women checking out other men; women will always catch men checking out other women.

50. The most embarrassing thing for women is to find another woman wearing the same dress at a formal party. You don’t hear men say, ‘Oh-my-GOD, there’s another man wearing a black tux, get me outta here!’

Healthy Lifestyle

H ow healthy are you? Do you have a healthy diet ? Do you exercise regularly ? Do you drink at least 8 glasses of water a day ? Do you get enough sleep every day ? Do you live a healthy lifestyle ?

Our body is our temple, and we need to take care of it to have a healthy life . Do you know that over 65 % of Americans are either obese or overweight ? That ’ s insane! Think of your body as your physical shell to take you through life . If you repeatedly abuse it with unhealthy food , your shell will wear out quickly . While you may look okay on the outside , on the inside, your arteries are getting clogged up with cholesterol and arterial plaque . That ’ s not a pretty sight !

Good health isn ’t just about healthy eating and exercise — it also includes having a positive mental health , a healthy self -image , and a healthy lifestyle . In this article , I share 45 tips to live a healthier life . Bookmark this post and save the tips , because they are going to be vital in living a healthier life .

1 . Drink more water . Most of us don ’ t actually drink enough water every day . Water is essential for our bodies to function — do you know over 60 % of our body is made up of water ? Water is needed to carry out body functions, remove waste , and carry nutrients and oxygen around our body. Since we lose water every day through urine , bowel movements , perspiration and breathing , we need to replenish our water intake.

Furthermore , drinking more water aids in losing weight . A Health . com study carried out among overweight /obese people showed that water drinkers lose 4 .5 more pounds than a control group . The researchers believe that it ’s because drinking more water helps fill your stomach , making you less hungry and less likely to overeat . I agree with that , and I have an added take that your body tries to retain whatever water you have when you don ’t take in enough water , leading to increase in weight. Whereas when you regularly drink water, your body knows that it ’ s going to get its supply of fluids , so it doesn ’t try to retain more water.

The amount of water we need is dependent on various factors such as humidity, your physical activity , and your weight, but generally we need

2 . 7 -3 .7 litres of water intake per day . Since food intake contributes about 20 % of our fluid intake , that means we need to drink about 2 . 0 -3 .0 litres of water, or about 8 -10 glasses ( now you know how the 8 glasses recommendation came about!) . One way to tell if you’re hydrated — your urine should be colorless or slightly yellow. If it ’ s not, you’re not getting enough water! Other signs include : Dry lips , dry mouth , and little urination . Go get some water first before you continue this article !

2 . Get enough sleep . When you don ’t rest well , you compensate by eating more. Usually it ’s junk food . Get enough rest and you don ’t need to snack to stay awake. Also , lack of sleep causes premature aging , and you wouldn ’t want that .

3 . Meditate. Meditation quietens your mind and calms your soul . If you don ’t know how to meditate , don ’ t worry — learn how to meditate in 5 simple steps.

4 . Exercise . Not just a few times a week , but every day . Movement is life . Research has shown that exercising daily brings tremendous benefits to our health , including increase of life span , lowering of risk of diseases , higher bone density , and weight loss . Increase activity in your life . Choose walking over transport for close distances . Climb the stairs instead of taking the lift . Join some aerobics classes . Take up a sport of your liking (see tip # 5 )

5 . Pick exercises you enjoy . When you enjoy the sports, you’ ll naturally want to do them. Exercise isn ’t about suffering and pushing yourself ; it ’s about being healthy and having fun at the same time . Adding variation in your exercises will keep them interesting.

6 . Work out different parts of your body . Don ’t just do cardio (like jogging ). Give your full body a proper work out. The easiest way is to engage in sports, since they work out different muscle groups . Popular sports include basketball , football , swimming , tennis , squash , badminton , frisbee , and more.

7 . Eat more fruits. Fruits contain a plethora of vitamins and minerals . Do you know that

oranges offer more health benefits than Vitamin C pills ? Taking in synthetic supplements is not the same as consuming the foods directly from nature. Satisfy your palate with these nutritious fruits: Watermelon , Apricots , Avocado (yes , avocado is technically a fruit!) , Apple , Cantaloupe , Grapefruit , Kiwi , Guava, Papaya , Strawberries.

8 . Eat more vegetables . Like fruits, vegetables are important for good health . Experts suggest

5 – 9 servings of fruits/vegetables a day , but unfortunately most people don ’t even have 5 servings ! Some of my favorite vegetables include kidney beans , black beans , asparagus , long beans , french beans , sprouts , button mushrooms , and carrots. What are your favorite vegetables and how can you include more of them in your diet today ?

9 . Pick bright -colored foods . Fruits and vegetables with bright colors are usually high in anti- oxidants . Anti -oxidants are good for health because they remove free radicals in our body that damage our cells . So get your fill of fruits/ vegetables of different colors : White ( Bananas , Mushroom ) , Yellow ( Pineapples, Mango ), Orange ( Orange , Papaya ), Red (Apple , Strawberries, Tomatoes , Watermelon ) , Green ( Guava, Avocados , Cucumber , Lettuce , Celery ) , Purple /Blue ( Blackberries , Eggplant , Prunes) . Here’ s a full list under the color wheel .

10 . Cut down on processed food . Processed foods are not good because (1 ) most nutritional value is lost in the making of these foods and ( 2 ) the added preservatives are bad for our health . Many processed foods contain a high amount of salt content , which leads to higher blood pressure and heart disease . Processed foods are anything that is not in its raw form. In general , most food in supermarkets are processed — the more ingredients it has on the label (especially the ones ending with ‘ite ’ or ‘ate’) , the more processed they are. Watch out for those with salt /sugar in the first 5 ingredients and go for natural , whole food as much as possible .


“The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity.” – Amelia Earhart

“The difference between successful people and others is how long they spend time feeling sorry for themselves.” – Barbara Corcoran

“You can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them.” – Shonda Rhimes

“I’d rather regret the things I’ve done than regret the things I haven’t done.” – Lucille Ball

 “I hope the fathers and mothers of little girls will look at them and say ‘yes, women can.’” –

Dilma Rousseff

 “Beware of monotony; it’s the mother of all the deadly sins.” – Edith Wharton

“If you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.” – Erica Jong

 “I have stood on a mountain of no’s for one yes.” – B. Smith

 “The way we talk to our children becomes their inner voice.” – Peggy O’Mara

“You can never leave footprints that last if you are always walking on tiptoe.” – Leymah Gbowee

“If you don’t like the road you’re walking, start paving another one.” – Dolly Parton


 Miss  Naomi Omonobi . She’s the CEO of Mimi’s Empire. Enjoy!!

Tell Us About Yourself A Bit..

My Name is Omonobi Naomi Omegie. I am 22 years old. I’m from Edo State, Nigeria. I hold a Bsc. Home Economics Education from the University of Benin. I am the eldest of 5 children.

What’s The Aim Of Your Business?

The aim of my business is to help ladies regain their confidence cos when you look good you feel good. 

What Motivated You To Start Up This Business?

I was motivated to start up this business because I suffered from skin problems and I was looking for solutions. I used so much products but none seemed to work.

What Are Some Challenges You Face In The Business?

My challenges are how to get my ingredients, sometimes products don’t work for individuals, delivery outside Abuja, dealing with certain individuals.

Where Do You See Your Business In 2years?

In 2yrs I see my business blossoming into something unimaginable. Intense growth and large customer base. A permanent location.

What’s Your Advice For Young Ladies?

My advice to young ladies is never give up on your dreams keep pushing even if you fail, never depend on a man for money, if there’s something you love doing turn it into a hobby. Turn it into a job and make money from it.